So I got this call a bit ago

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My mom has been in the hospital for a few weeks. She's on dialysis like me, diabetic for years like me. She's been having trouble eating for months and she had a lot of surgeries in the last week. I went up and seen her a few days ago and I wasn't able to talk to her or see her for long but she looked good for what she had been through. She was going to have surgery today to connect her feeding tube and the hope for her recovery. Well I just got a call from the hospital chaplain and my dad. Her heart is now having trouble and the surgery was canceled. After my dialysis today I have to take the drive up to the hospital to say my goodbyes. It's hard to even write this but I need to just so I can see it. She's in her early 50's and it's been hard to watch all of this go on and at the same time know what she was going through as I'm 29 and doing the same thing as her. I never cared for her doctor and thought she should be doing better than she was.

Sorry I had to post this but I'm trying to stay as strong as I can and seeing this out loud is going to help a bit.
 

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You and your mom are in my Prayers my friend.
 

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My mom has been in the hospital for a few weeks. She's on dialysis like me, diabetic for years like me. She's been having trouble eating for months and she had a lot of surgeries in the last week. I went up and seen her a few days ago and I wasn't able to talk to her or see her for long but she looked good for what she had been through. She was going to have surgery today to connect her feeding tube and the hope for her recovery. Well I just got a call from the hospital chaplain and my dad. Her heart is now having trouble and the surgery was canceled. After my dialysis today I have to take the drive up to the hospital to say my goodbyes. It's hard to even write this but I need to just so I can see it. She's in her early 50's and it's been hard to watch all of this go on and at the same time know what she was going through as I'm 29 and doing the same thing as her. I never cared for her doctor and thought she should be doing better than she was.

Sorry I had to post this but I'm trying to stay as strong as I can and seeing this out loud is going to help a bit.

I will say a prayer for you and your mom. My heart goes out to you two during this difficult time.
 

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My best to you and all your family.
 

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I am beyond sorry to hear this... I really wish I knew you better so maybe I could say more, or be more comforting. Regardless, I hope the best for your family.
 
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I'm so sorry to hear this. You, your mom and family will be in my thoughts.


Jeff :(
 

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very sorry to hear that
 

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You both are in my prayers



speaking of Diabetes, friday at my doctors apointment
the results came back from my blood and other tests
that i am Diabetic on top of all my other health problems
it turns out it is one of the side effects of the illness i got
in the Army
 

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Sorry to hear that. You and your family will be in my prayers.
 

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You both are in my prayers



speaking of Diabetes, friday at my doctors apointment
the results came back from my blood and other tests
that i am Diabetic on top of all my other health problems
it turns out it is one of the side effects of the illness i got
in the Army

Oh boy. It just keeps getting better, doesnt it. Hang in there, bro.
 

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You both are in my prayers



speaking of Diabetes, friday at my doctors apointment
the results came back from my blood and other tests
that i am Diabetic on top of all my other health problems
it turns out it is one of the side effects of the illness i got
in the Army

Hang in there bud. Take ur meds and listen to your doc.
 

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you and your mom have been mentioned in my prayers and will be again. hope for the best.
 

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I am soooooo sorry man, I can not relate to what is happening to you right now, but if you need some time to vent then thats fine you will be in my prayers and thoughts as well.
 

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My mom passed away today at 8:45 pm. She went fast and peaceful after we took life support off. That's about the best I can muster right now.



I love you mom.....

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