might have found my dad after 38 years.

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Mob, thank you for sharing this experience with all of us. I wish all the best to you and your new-found siblings!
 
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Wow, Kev I just got caught up with all of this, more twists and turns than a Grisham novel :laugh2:

Can't tell you how glad I am for you. Great news that you've got new siblings to get to know, and at least you don't have to wonder about your dad anymore.
 

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Right on, good news mate
So it really did work out regardless of your pop.
Everything happens for a reason and perhaps the dad meet was never meant to happen but rather to initiate the life changing connection you now have with the other siblings.
 

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Crazy, crazy thread. Congrats, brother - I'm happy for you.
 

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I say you still talk to your father,,,,,to go ahead and get that out of you and on the table. I did it it with my father for all of his sins on me and my mom..........

I had my father in tears.....not that I was not.....but I led the debriefing,,,...

At the end I relized my father was a fu-kup as a person in certain ways but was still human and not an evil person.

So I made my peace with that part of my life and shed all of my rage.....well at least most of it.
 

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This was a good read, I'm happy that you've connected with your family, and wish you luck on finding the others.
 

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Interesting...If I were you, I'd be very interested in the 2 other siblings too, but I'm not gonna even try to push you to do anything. If you're happy, and I see that you are, good work.
 

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i am interested in the 2 other siblings, but i have to take all of this in stages. i cant overload myself. the 3 sibling that i have reconnected with have limited contact with one of the others, so i have made an attempt there, so we will see.
in total i have found:
2 half sisters and a half brother that i am now in regular contact with
1 half sister that i have tried to contact, with no reply yet
1 half brother that no one knows where he is
1 half sister who was severly disabled and passed away at age 12.
including my twin brother that i grew up with, this is 8 children that my dad had with 4 different women.
and i thought my life was a trainwreck before, lol.
i thank you all for being around during this really strange time for me.
i wasnt sure whether to post all of this or not, but some members here have been very helpful in obtaining all of this info, and i thought it would only be fair to share the results.
 

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Thanks for sharing, glad you found your siblings-

good for you,
wemedge
 

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Cool story Mob. You found out some information on your old man that was needed, regardless of what kind of person he is/was/whatever. You gained some new siblings, which is also a good thing!!
 

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I think stopping to catch your breath before going any deeper into the rabbit hole is not a bad idea.

I'm happy to see this is working out positively for you.
 

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well, we did without him until i was 10 when my mother married my step father. unfortunately my step dad was kind of a jerkoff. the only thing he really did was feed me, put a roof over my head, and turn me on to guitars. other than that, he was a complete dick. i have learned to be pretty self sufficient, yet i think that this would complete a chapter in my life that i have been thinking about for years.

As corny as this is, Turn the Page brother. Start the next chapter.
 

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Mob, give jeremy kyle a ring haha. Im really glad that you made contact, it was brave

jake
 

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