Great stuff! Theory is there to assist when you need it. But you're right, you work by ear first. (Because theory can often mislead, when you only have a beginner's grasp of it.)True! But I love it lol..... And to everyone yes I am playing songs but only a few! Here is my thought process...I am more focused on theory and technique because I want to learn the right way, by transcribing the way it should be done and not by looking up tabs/videos. Getting the rhythm down is easy, so once you know your basic theory, and by practicing it all over the neck you are essentially ear training so if you hear a sound you know how to recreate that sound and your options. And so far my theory is working, I learned foo fighters big me by ear (very easy song) and simple stuff like the Star Wars theme just by sitting there..thinking of the melody and then finding the proper intervals. I have cheated on a few occasions such as after midnight by Clapton and just a few other songs just to work in a certain technique im trying to perfect like you all suggest. But I'm trying hard to do it mostly by ear.
So to put those at ease, I'm just not focusing on theory
When you ear gets stuck - again (as I think you mean by "cheating") you can look up chords, wherever you can find them. It's kind of cheating, but more like getting a second opinion, from someone with (hopefully) better ears. And of course you always check the sound of what you find (and if it sounds wrong, your ears are probably correct).