I'm jamming with two drummers, should I start two bands? Minor dilemma.

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I messages both drummers. Ones cool with it the other hasn't responded.
 

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Don't let them get too close to each other. You don't want a critical mass of percussion causing the whole world to collapse into a tambourine solo singularity.
 

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Just so as to NOT hurt the feelings of your good friend that is meh on drums,

when you talk about the other band,

Talk as if YOU are in someone else's band.
They let you be in it. Maybe cause you have jam space. IDK

That way he can be jealous, but not mad at you, cause you have no say on him being in the band.
 

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I play bass, my two friends play drums. One is better than the other but I'm good friends with both of them. I also have a friend that plays guitar. He has his own gear, neither drummers have their own gear, we jam at my house and they play my drums. I have fun with both drummers but one is better than the other. Not sure what to do.
Keep the drummer that shows up ON TIME, EVERY TIME, even if the other one is better.
Drummers get better with practice, but once a slacker, always a slacker.
 

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Keep the drummer that shows up ON TIME, EVERY TIME, even if the other one is better.
Drummers get better with practice, but once a slacker, always a slacker.
One doesn't have transportation. The other one does.
 

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Do you really want 2 drummers sleeping on your couch(es)?

One of them asked to stay with me long term, I had to say no. He hasn't really been talking to me much after I turned him down. He has a place to stay so I don't see why he'd be mad.
 

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My newer friend can also sing and play guitar. I can play bass drums and guitar. I can't sing well.
 

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Start playing southern rock, I think those bands always have two drummers don’t they? Of course, they also have at least four guitarists, so it might just create a whole new problem.
 

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I always say: the names may change but the story remains mind numbingly the same.
 

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