Nintari
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Hi everyone! I've been a lurker for a long time, so I'm not technically new around here, but this is my first post so, I guess that makes me at least somewhat green, right?
Anyway, I'm absolutely horrible when it comes to pulling the trigger on expensive gear (and things in general, not just musical equipment). So much so that at times, I've questioned whether or not I suffer from OCD or some sort of childhood trauma. It's like, whenever the time comes to drop serious coin on anything, I almost break out in a cold sweat. My sleep suffers. I can't stop obsessing over it. Can't make up my mind. I feel pulled in two completely different directions (do I really need this? should I be spending this money on something more responsible? should I be spending it at all?)... that sort of thing.
Well, as you might have guessed, I'm currently ravaged by the aforementioned burden. You see, I have the money to finally get one of two lifeline dreams as far as musical gear goes... but only one. The two choices are: a new 50's Les Paul standard (have always wanted a Les Paul since my teens) and a new Silver Jubilee reissue half stack (same; have always wanted a quality Marshall half stack), OR a Martin D-28, which I've also badly wanted since my teens. Both amazing things in their own right, but both drastically different. And once I pull the trigger on one, the other is gone for a long, long time. Probably years of time.
So my dilemma is basically this: I'm worried that once I buy one of these things, I'm going to find out that I made the wrong choice and end up wishing I had made the other and get stuck with it. Not that I would dislike either. That's not it. But sometimes I'm more acoustic leaning and other times, I'm more into the electric side of things... and I don't know which side of that spectrum I'm going to find myself on in a month, three months or even a year from now.
Does anyone have any advice for me? Because as pathetic as it is, I really can't seem to make the decision on my own without having a mild anxiety attack lol. I need help. Probably more than a guitar forum on the internet can provide, but that's a topic for another day haha.
Anyway, I'm absolutely horrible when it comes to pulling the trigger on expensive gear (and things in general, not just musical equipment). So much so that at times, I've questioned whether or not I suffer from OCD or some sort of childhood trauma. It's like, whenever the time comes to drop serious coin on anything, I almost break out in a cold sweat. My sleep suffers. I can't stop obsessing over it. Can't make up my mind. I feel pulled in two completely different directions (do I really need this? should I be spending this money on something more responsible? should I be spending it at all?)... that sort of thing.
Well, as you might have guessed, I'm currently ravaged by the aforementioned burden. You see, I have the money to finally get one of two lifeline dreams as far as musical gear goes... but only one. The two choices are: a new 50's Les Paul standard (have always wanted a Les Paul since my teens) and a new Silver Jubilee reissue half stack (same; have always wanted a quality Marshall half stack), OR a Martin D-28, which I've also badly wanted since my teens. Both amazing things in their own right, but both drastically different. And once I pull the trigger on one, the other is gone for a long, long time. Probably years of time.
So my dilemma is basically this: I'm worried that once I buy one of these things, I'm going to find out that I made the wrong choice and end up wishing I had made the other and get stuck with it. Not that I would dislike either. That's not it. But sometimes I'm more acoustic leaning and other times, I'm more into the electric side of things... and I don't know which side of that spectrum I'm going to find myself on in a month, three months or even a year from now.
Does anyone have any advice for me? Because as pathetic as it is, I really can't seem to make the decision on my own without having a mild anxiety attack lol. I need help. Probably more than a guitar forum on the internet can provide, but that's a topic for another day haha.