Thanks a lot for your suggestions!
That heatstick method looks neat. Wondering if it would be possible with some copper wire instead, ordering something from StewMac is very expensive.
I have a steamer somewhere, so might also be able to use that if I can fit a hose/ball nipple on it.
I do worry a bit about removing any frets to do this, as I'm on my second fret job, and wasn't very happy with the process and results, and I have no more fret material... of course, I will get some more eventually... But with the long neck tenon design of the flying v, and maybe not so long heel, I was hoping I could get by by steaming from the pickup cavity.
As for the lowrider option, I have been contemplating lowering the bridge etc, but I fear it might bring other problems. I have to probably reroute pickups to lower them, and it won't look very nice if the pickups go lower than the rings. I could probably make this work with the current bridge if I were to to it this way.
For the steam/heat option I worry about the center seam of the guitar body, but I guess it won't affect it too much as I will be heating a very small portion of it.