- Mar 1, 2014
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Not a good person, but still around? Not in jail or in another state or whatever? If he's around, he has a right to be apart of the kid's life if he wants to be, regardless of you or your girlfriend's opinion of the guy. Unless there is some legal order that he is not allowed to see the kid, then it's not your call.Hes not much of a good person. I'll just say that.
I believe it was love at first sight with us. I always said that was bull shit but then it happened.I have a different perspective and experience than the majority here. I never had a bad relationship because I always knew what I wanted and was willing to wait for it. I met my wife in March 2007, bought her ring in June of 2007, got engaged in Sept 2007, got married in April 2008. It was truly love at first sight for both of us and we have a great relationship.
So I'm happy for you. If you're watching for the red flags and know what you want and you're confident about it then don't let anything hold you back.
All i wanted was to share my joy.Its worrisome that you take offense on what you do not want to hear.
Man in this place that's what so great about putting personal things out there..
You get the good and you get the bad but at least you get real life.
Then you pick and choose how you want to proceed.
Turning a blind eye to life never works..
If your really sure about her then the negativity should not matter in the least..
All i wanted was to share my joy.