God i hate my sister...

H.E.L.Shane

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Just a random bitch session about my waste of a skin graft POS sister...

I have to work tomorrow, (I work my job as a watch officer for the state of PA regardless of holidays or not.. think of me as like a 911 center for the entire state of PA)

Sooooo I did some work in the house today, painting, etc. figuring i'd go out and get a bunch guitar work done in the shop tonight... the inlay work needs to sit and cure before leveling and so does the lacquer coats i have to get on....

WELL....

at 5:00, my 62 year old mother calls me in a fury telling me that i need to go out and pick up my 5 and 8 year old nephews from my sisters place and bring them back to her house because my sister is drunk......

backline... my mother has custody of my nephews because my sister is such a piece of shit...

lately, she's actually been helping my mother out more, babysitting on the weekdays..

BUT.. my mother wanted to go out to a casino this weekend and blow off some steam... so she asked my sister.. the kids own freakin mother, to watch them for ONE FREAKIN DAY on a weekend..

do you think that piece of trash could go without drinking???? Hell no... she got shifaced drunk yesterday... and mom didn't get to go away..

then.. she was sober today and begged to take the kids...

my mother had JUST got to the casino, two hours away, when the kids called her screaming that my sister was drunk and had slapped the little one around....

SOOOOOOOO....

Here I sit, babysitting my nephews because my freakin sister simply CAN"T waste her weekend by not getting drunk.......

SHe loves to say that "at least i aint doing heroine anymore"... Last time she told me that in a drunken slur.... she got a sasquatch paw under the chin, around her throat, lifted off the ground and thrown through the back door of the house... I just couldn't take it anymore....



Sorry to my customers who are wating patiently for their guitars.. i PLANNED on an 8 hour work day tonight.. but it didn;t happen....


the freakin hurricane and earthquake last week resulted in 50 hours of overtime at my jobby job (i usullay only work 3 days a week, 13 hours a day and thus get spend four days in my guitar shop..)

and the ONE DAY in the past week i really get to put a full day in the shop.... i get this shit dumped on me.....




Anybody else have any relatives that the mere throught of has you reaching for a sharp object??????

I know there's guys out here that have Drug / Alcohol problems.. I aint pointin fingers at you... eveybody has their own demons.. but, if in some posts i might seem a bit callus to your plight... well, there 's the reason.......its my own personal experiences with my family that have eroded my tollerance for substance abuse in any form)
 

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that's too bad, she is obviously pretty ill. have you guys done an intervention or tried anything else to get her into rehab
 

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I too am sorry to hear this!!

One thing I recommend is turn your attention towards the kids. Get positive FAST. The last thing they need is more negativity.

You're doing the right thing. Deal with your sister later.
 

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My heart goes out to her kids, especially.

Sorry you and your mother have to deal with your sister being such a waste. Like Ed said, just be positive with the kids and love on them like crazy. They'll be dealing with baggage from your sister for the rest of their lives - at least give them as many positive memories of their childhood as possible.
 

H.E.L.Shane

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yeah.... thats why my mother has the kids.. and honestly, if anything happens to her, my fiance and i will take them..

They don't deserve to be around that shit, and it would only be detrimental to their developement anyway..

I have to bite my toungue on a daily basis to not talk shit about their mother around them..... but none of us do... they are to young to really understand..



AS for my sister... we tried all sorts of shit... re****, intervention, she always falls flat on her face..

the bad thing... she has NO DRUG RECORD... she has always been able to skate out of drug charges... helll there were 30 empty heroin bags in her car when she got pulled over for WITH THE KIDS IN THE CARa couple of years ago.. and the cop didn't even bother to mention that on the report.. HOWEVER..... when I when toi get the car.. the fuggin cops gave ME the third degree about drugs when i was picking it up out of impound... THAT pissed me off to the point I filed a complaint with the PSP central office...


EDIT** why did it auto bleep R E H A B S??????? up there?????
 

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EDIT** why did it auto bleep R E H A B S??????? up there?????

You can thank the infamous pickup maker who didn't deliver a bunch of product. H-A-B-A-N-E-R-O-S, or H-A-B-S were a pickup model he offered.
 

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Hmm...

Hate... Waste of skin... Piece of shit... Trash...

Sounds like 'yer' pretty mad.
 

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I have 2 piece of shit younger brothers that create all kinds of family trouble. Living where I do and having everyone else on the east coast helps insulate me a little but I'm to the point I haven't talked to them in years and the last time was an accident because they had my mother's cell phone.Which I pay for!

Drugs, drinking, almost always unemployed..... My mom opened a deli in a small town in Maryland where she lived and hired one of them to help out since he was unemployed. he robbed her blind until she couldn't pay the bills and closed the place. She also has an alcohol problem when she's under alot of stress so she went back to drinking because her business failed and she owed everyone money..... She finally moved away from them and now she's doing much better.

You can't choose your family is right.......

Take care of the kids and your mom - forget about the sister. That's what I would do. I know how shitty the situation can be.

Aloha
Freddy
 

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I have a cousin, same thing.
Tried to commit suicide about 10 days ago.
Called me for $400 bucks to make her rent, ...I said no.
5 years of this crap, 2 of her fiances died. The latter was a real piece of shit.
They were both trying to get sober, but managed to piss away a 100k in in less than a year.
Neither could work, no licenses.
Sick of it.
 

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That sucks man. Hope things work out for you.
 

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Really sorry to hear Shane.

I count myself very lucky my parents stopped drinking long before I come along. Hell, they met at an AA meeting...
 

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Sorry to hear about it, Shane. It would probably be a good thing if she were to seek help for her problem... but sometimes, that doesn't happen until well after it should have.

You have my sympathy.

--R
 

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I pretty much hate my whole family, so I feel your pain bro. Hang in there dude.
 

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J...pick up my 5 and 8 year old nephews from my sisters place and bring them back to her house because...



...because you are a stand up guy and the guitars can wait, over the lives of innocents that you are the "go to" guy for.

Count it a priviledge. You are being entrusted with the lives of very needy children in your own (extended) family that you have the opportunity to have a positive effect on (though it may be a while before they learn to appreciate your sacrifice, or never).

That's holy work (I don't mean anything religious here).

I applaud you for being willing to do the right thing. :thumb::applause:

It matters.

Of all the things in life, love is what defeats the juggernaut of self.
Congratulations on being a quality human being in a bad ol' world full of hurting kids. You get to make a difference (not that anybody else may/may not ever notice, but I do).

Good on ya. I see what you're doin'.
 

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