The Goat Lady
- Sep 9, 2008
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Well there ya go Bingo old chap..
Listen to what people have insinuated re poor old Becky, taking you to the cleaners and are you ready for it etc. ( Insult to her indeed ).
I'll tell you one thing straight my man.. Listen to some peoples advice in here and you will never find the Bling you are looking for.
You will remain frozen in adolescent land until it's too late.
Can't you see that's exactly how they are and they don't want you to change.
I had it myself when Sylvia and I got married. A bunch of guys I hung around with didn't like it one bit, simply because they didn't want the boys will have fun era to come to end.
Yes of course relationships flourish and flounder, but if you go in with that attitude you are doomed from the outset.
A relationship is not about staring into eachothers eyes all google eyed.
That's infatuation. A relationship is about going forward side by side together taking whatever shit is thrown at you on the way.
Now throw away all that 13 year old 'Would Bling like a new hat' crap, and stop listening to what you want to hear from people , rather than what you need to hear.
All that third person.. Would Bling like this and that stuff is merely an escape from reality where it's almost as if you weren't talking about yourself which is an easy let out.
As I said before , concentrate on the people round you that do take time for you and not some bitter guy sitting at a computer with a copy of Playboy on his lap.
The first question you should be asking yourself is why are some of these people so bitter.
Yeah I've been there done that.. Divorce and all and it made me grow up fairly quickly believe me. I've been a prick in my life, but I think 30 is the time to stand aside and take the bull by the horns.
You'll probably not respond to this post, simply because it's not really what you want to hear which is fair enough.
You are a nice if not somewhat lost soul and if I didn't think you were worthwhile I wouldn't bothered writing this believe me.
Why don't you two haul your Yankee arses over to the Bridport meet in the UK in May for a short holiday together . You'll have a whale of a time and us Brits will soon sort you out.
Anyway I have reached Gramps status now and I'm glad all that's behind me, so my wife and I can enjoy our new grandson , and hand him back when he gets too much..
The old silverback in Dorset..
Great post Phil, I'd hug you if I could....Unfortunately I won't be seeing you in May...SSL doesn't do airplanes...you'd have to knock me out cold and drag me onto a plane lol.