The news is so ugly lately, here's something decent

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  1. Malikon

    Malikon Henshin! V.I.P. Member

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    While out for a jog, she discovered a baby buried alive. Twenty years later, they reunite

    By BRITTNY MEJIA
    MAY 17, 2018 | 9:30 AM


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    Azita Milanian is reunited with Matthew Whitaker, the newborn baby she found abandoned on the side of a trail in Altadena 20 years ago. (Myung J. Chun / Los Angeles Times)




    In 1998, a jogger found a newborn baby buried alive in the foothills of Altadena, his umbilical cord still attached. The baby, not more than a few hours old, hovered near death.

    For decades, Azita Milanian would wonder what happened to the boy after he recovered at a Pasadena hospital and was put up for adoption. This week, 20 years to the date of when she found him, the pair were reunited.

    "I was waiting for you for 20 years," a tearful Milanian said as she hugged Matthew Whitaker.

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    1998 photo of Matthew Whitaker in the neonatal medical center at Huntington Memorial Hospital in Pasadena. (Kirk McKoy / Los Angeles Times)

    It was a reunion that came about in an unlikely way. The mother of one of Whitaker's friends wrote into the KIIS FM radio station explaining Whitaker's story and asking for a 23andMe DNA kit so he could learn more about his ancestry.

    Whitaker agreed to take the test and have the results revealed during the "On Air with Ryan Seacrest" program. When one of the show's producers, Patty Rodriguez, read a 1998 LA Times story of Milanian finding him, she decided to try and reunite them.

    Ahead of the program's taping Wednesday morning, Milanian waited anxiously in a nearby room, with a bag filled with clothes that she had brought for Whitaker. In the bag was a card, with an envelope reading, "Happy Birthday! Baby Christian Mountain Angel Mathew."

    When Milanian walked into the studio and saw Whitaker, she began to cry, sobbing into his shirt as he hugged her and called her an angel.

    "Finally, all my dreams came true," Milanian said. Many in the studio cried.

    On the program, the Iranian immigrant shared the story of how she found Whitaker on a Saturday night when she had been invited to go dancing, but decided instead to go running.

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    Matthew Whitaker looks at the spot (to the right of the pile of rocks) where he was abandoned as a newborn in brush near a trail in Altadena 20 years ago. (Myung J. Chun / Los Angeles Times)

    One of her dogs, Tango, had stopped to smell and scratch at the dirt on the trail. Milanian went to investigate and saw two feet coming out of the ground. At first she thought it was an animal, but then she heard the infant cry.

    When she started digging, she found a baby wrapped in a blue towel. She lifted him onto her arm and began digging the dirt from his nose and mouth.

    "Please don't die," she said to the baby. "I will never leave you. I love you."

    After she found him, Milanian dialed 911 but was disconnected several times before she finally flagged down a motorist, who drove to the Los Angeles County Sheriff's Department station to tell deputies about the baby.

    While she waited, Milanian said, she tried to comfort him.

    "He grabbed my wrist and stopped crying," Milanian said in a 1998 interview. "It was very emotional. What kind of sick human would do something like that? He still had his umbilical cord hanging from his stomach."

    Whitaker's body temperature had fallen to 80 degrees and when he arrived at the hospital he was immediately treated for severe hypothermia. Doctors believed the baby's size — he weighed 7 pounds, 12 ounces — enabled him to survive.

    The baby showed remarkable recovery and, at the time, the neonatal medical director at Huntington Memorial Hospital called it "really almost a miracle." Hospital nurses named him "Baby Christian."

    A few days later Milanian went to see the baby, gazing with tears in her eyes as the infant lay sleeping on his belly in an incubator. She did not adopt him herself, because she had been on the news and worried someone could easily find him.

    Still, Milanian had hoped to maintain contact, and after her visit said she repeatedly reached out to child services to see Whitaker. Finally, after a year of attempts, she was told he had been adopted and she would not be able to see him.

    "It was the most frustrating experience," Milanian said. "I was hoping that he would find me, the same way we found each other that day."

    Whitaker grew up in a loving home in Gardena, never knowing the story of how he had been found. The only commemoration of that time lay in his middle name: Christian.

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    Milanian and Matthew Whitaker were reunited on Whitaker's birthday — and 20 years from the day he was found — May 16, 1998. (Myung J. Chun / Los Angeles Times)

    It was not until he was 17 that he unexpectedly learned from a family member that he had been adopted. A year ago, his godmother told the story of how he was found.

    "I'm here today, I've lived a great life, I was adopted into a great family. I couldn't ask my parents for any more," Whitaker said.

    He doesn't dwell on the person who left him.

    "If this was your best idea, to leave me here, then thanks," he said. "Because you weren't mentally fit to raise a child."

    The day they reunited, Milanian drove him to the hiking trail where she found him. As she walked with him, she called him by the name she knows best — Christian.

    Whitaker stared through a chain-link fence at the spot. He grew quiet, serious — a change from the jokester he had been all day.

    Back in the car, Milanian asked if he was OK.

    "This could have been my grave," Whitaker said.

    Milanian sat next to him in the car and softly said, "You were wanted."



    Source: http://www.latimes.com/local/california/la-me-ln-baby-christian-20180516-story.html
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    What an absolutely crazy story. Can't imagine why someone would (could?) bury a baby. But at least it had a good ending.
     
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  2. Mannish Boy

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    Wow, this is crazy!!!!
     
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  3. SpawnedX

    SpawnedX Senior Member

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    Glad for a happy ending. But how do you just abandon a baby...
     
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  4. Malikon

    Malikon Henshin! V.I.P. Member

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    not just abandon,..bury!

    you've got to be sick in the head to do something like that
     
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    God bless that woman for investigating a little, a lot of people wouldn't have even paid enough attention to be able to do the right thing.
     

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    HeartString Non Prominent MBR Premium Member

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    Hard to fathom why people do what they do. Great story!!
     
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  7. KP11520

    KP11520 Senior Member

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    Thanks Mal! I haz a tear or two now.

    More stories like this, on a way more often schedule, would certainly bring more of the good out in people. It's still there, just buried under all the latest crap being overwhelmingly pumped.

    Good stuff!
     

  8. LPMarshall Hack

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    Crazy...
     
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  9. Thumpalumpacus

    Thumpalumpacus Senior Member

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    Goes to show there's good as well as evil in people. The smiles in those photos show that this time good won out.

    Thanks for the post, Mal.
     
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  10. Fiat Lux

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    Doesn’t sound like Whitaker is hankering to find his “real” parents...

    Good on him. They don’t deserve his interest.

    Cheers
     
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  11. meatball

    meatball Senior Member

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    MAn , the TV Movie will be awesome ....
     
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  12. E1WOOD5150

    E1WOOD5150 Purveyor of Joke Grenades

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    That is a great story. Lets hope that Azita and Christian remain friends from now on. Aunt Azita has a certain ring to it.
     
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  13. Dilemma

    Dilemma Loud Pipes Ruin Naps Premium Member

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    This is a terrific story. Not everyone sucks. Nope.
     
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    Why you gotta make me cry on a Friday morning bro?
     
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    JTM45 Premium Member

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    Great story, Love it!
     
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    Brians Evil Twin Poophoria Sōtō Zen V.I.P. Member

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    Cool story brah.

    JK, it really is a cool story and a bit of a miracle.

    If the media could figure out a way to make money on good news, we'd see a lot more stories like this.
     
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  17. KTM

    KTM Senior Member

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    Wow. Thanks for posting this Mal.
     
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  18. FennRx

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    I think a bit of the news has been pretty good lately :dunno:

    This story is really cool though . Thanks for sharing.
     
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  19. rcole_sooner

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    Jeez .... something's in my eye ... just a minute ...
     
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  20. scott1970

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    I can't say the idea of someone burying a newborn baby is the way to start an uplifting story. I'll stick with the ugly news. I like it.
     
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