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Discussion in 'Introductions' started by spacebubby, Aug 10, 2008.
I'm the one holding out on the marriage thing. We're both holding out on the kids thing.
My girl is dying for a ring! And I'm dying to give her one!!!! They're so damn expensive!
I've had a ring for the past 8 years. I've stopped wearing it because I got tired of people asking me when the date was and me not having one.
On him! Or you....... Set a date people!!
I'M the one that refuses to set a date. I don't want to get married. It wouldn't change anything between us.
We'd elope anyway I think.
Smart! Vegas is a good choice!
What I really don't want to do is plan a wedding. I have no objections about actually getting married....I just don't want to spend that kind of money on that and plan the whole thing. I would just leave on a vacation and come back married. Much easier that way. I wouldn't wear my rings anyway at work. I have to wash my hands too much for that.
Hola! How are you??
I love your kitty pic
p.s. you shouldn't have to get married because of societies ways, has that gotten us very far REALLY?
Hi. Welcome to the forum! Sorry I'm late with the welcome. I see you already have alot of posts. I don't get alot of time on here. It's cool you joined. I think my girlfriend Emilly is around here now. Her user name is unpluggedinthemetro. I'm a slow typer so she may have already posted on here by the time I finish this.
Oh, I don't plan on getting married, the only thing it does is make it harder to leave...but that's just my opinion on things. Our relationship isn't broke and I'm not about to go fixing it.
Back twenty-plus years ago my then-fiancee and her mother were planning our wedding; one day they asked me, "Do you have any ideas for the wedding?"
I had a friend at the time who played in a great bluegrass band, and I said we ought to hire them, rent a houseboat on the Atchafalaya, get a keg of beer and some snacks, and invite our friends to spend an afternoon--we could get married in between sets, and have a great big party!
Nan and her mother just looked at each other and went back to their planning, and it was the LAST input from me they asked for or listened to.
I still think it would have been more fun than the church wedding was.
Welcome!!! Oh, and very smart thinking on the wedding stuff. Wish I had gone that route.....
Thanks for the welcomes. We don't want any children, so I see no need to bother getting married, it's just a piece of paper. I'm sure some people don't agree, but we're happy and that's all that matters.
I'm a little late on some of my welcomes, but welcome Dudess!