awww sh*t! the "what's our future" talk

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  1. zeronalo

    zeronalo Senior Member

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    My girlfriend wants to have the "what's our future?" talk.

    I was clear that I'm not getting married again from day 1. The "No jewelry rule" is in effect too.

    I think she's trying to wear me down or give me the ultimatum which is going to be disappointing.

    I'm faithful, love spending time with her and she lives at my house about half the time. I'm pretty damned happy with the current situation........she wants more

    Aloha
    Freddy
     
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    hecube Senior Member

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    cjpeck Senior Member

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    DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMED
     
  4. elephantrider

    elephantrider Senior Member

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    i'm sure you are happy with the current situation. i'm sure she most certainly isn't. :)
    you know the ultimatum will come, just be prepared. that's really all you can do.
     
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  6. TheX

    TheX Voice of Reason

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    We're going to miss you!
     
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    Zungle Senior Member

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    twst1up Senior Member

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    You know what's needing to happen.
     
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    Olds442 Senior Member

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    she's playing that card today?

    for one thing, she has horrible timing. beyond that, it's all up to you.

    how good does she look walking away? how does that make you feel? suddenly i'm an authority.

    *pay no attention to my post, i fail hard at this stuff.
     
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    judson Senior Member

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    so show a list with pics of all your gear you will be selling soon to fund the chains...
     
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    100% of all happy marriages begin with an ultimatum...
     
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    TheX Voice of Reason

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    Nothing says "I love you" like selling your stuff cheap.
     
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    bilbarstow Premium Member

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    So when she describes the confrontation to her friends, she will say "Well, he was just such a "broken" man, he just couldn't get over his divorce. His loss ..."
     
  14. Howard2k

    Howard2k Premium Member

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    Sometimes that's a good chat to have. Maybe she'll be reassured even with a non-commitment. She'll know where she stands and she can accept it or not.

    I don't really see how this can be a bad thing under any circumstances as long as you guys are adults and stuff.
     
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    Tim Fezziwig Senior Member

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    I love being married. EVERYBODY said we would crash, NO! Going on 18 years!Women like the title. Why not? Just because one marriage went bad, don't mean they all do. I had 6 bands before I found THE FEZZ band. Make her happy, make her sad,make her jumpy, make her Reuben Kincaid!
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    I've never heard of a "what's our future" talk from a woman that included "I don't want to get married, because I prefer to shack up part time with no long term commitment."

    You better start woman shopping.
     
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    :laugh2: I have but fwiw, those are typically the type of females that will cheat...
     
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    Tim Fezziwig Senior Member

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    brokentoeswalker Senior Member

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    Girlfriend asks "What's our future ??"

    Zeronalo shakes magic 8-ball .... "i hope you brought lube"


    Que serĂ¡, serĂ¡
     
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  20. northernguitarguy

    northernguitarguy SWeAT hOg

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    Maybe she wants to bang another guy?
     

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