NFW*ASK NICOLE: *(mature content)

[FLICKOFLASH]

Originally Posted by Nicole Rose

in the alternative lifestyle "shemale" is a dirty word. it's like the n word. the proper word is trans girl or transsexual. and i've dated transsexuals before. they have to be fairly femme in their personalities for me to like them so they need to be a fair way thru their transitions. but yeah. and i've dated butch lezzes too. the qualities that make me care for someone can be found in any kind of female.

never knew that I would think tranny would be offensive. See we are learning. What or who would say your dream girl look like ?

[FLICKOFLASH]

Originally Posted by Nicole Rose

i met her online thru a personals site. we emailed each other back and forth for over a year. then finally decided to meet. so i came out to ontario from quebec by bus and stayed a week. we found enough interest in each other for me to move out here the very next month and something special grew between us.

Funny I met my current wife the same way she is from Nova Scotia

[diceman]

Have you and your guy friends ever gone "cruising for chicks" together?

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

never knew that I would think tranny would be offensive. See we are learning. What or who would say your dream girl look like ?

well the word tranny is iffy. some of the younger generation dont 'like it but the older trans ladies i know dont' mind it.

i had the hugest crush on brooke shields when i was 13. so my dream girl might indeed be a 25 year old brooke.

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

Funny I met my current wife the same way she is from Nova Scotia

that's cool. my cousin danika moved from vancouver to the east coast for the man she met online. they're still married after like 10 years.

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by diceman

Have you and your guy friends ever gone "cruising for chicks" together?

no we haven't. that would be fun though. except the girls the guys would be aiming for are hetero and wouldn't be interested in me, and the girls i'm looking for would be lez and wouldn't be interested in the men. i guess we could go looking for bi's together though of course you never know where your'e gonig to find a bi girl. lezzes hang in lezzie bars and straights hang in straight bars. but bi's? they could be anywhere lol

[FLICKOFLASH]

Are sex toys , lotions & potions all that what they are cracked up to be?
My wife has tons of stuff & we never use them.

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

Are sex toys , lotions & potions all that what they are cracked up to be?
My wife has tons of stuff & we never use them.

the main things my partners and i have used are lips fingers and tongues. though we have some toys as well and they can be fun. what i find the most fun is exploring a womans body and finding all the little sensitive spots and teasing her with them.

[FLICKOFLASH]

Originally Posted by Nicole Rose

no we haven't. that would be fun though. except the girls the guys would be aiming for are hetero and wouldn't be interested in me, and the girls i'm looking for would be lez and wouldn't be interested in the men. i guess we could go looking for bi's together though of course you never know where your'e gonig to find a bi girl. lezzes hang in lezzie bars and straights hang in straight bars. but bi's? they could be anywhere lol

My wife is a little on the wild side & when she drinks she is really wild. We have gone to strip clubs together & what not. One night I got the idea to go to a lesbian bar. Me thinking like guys think wife - hot chix -hot lesbian chix Well when we got to the parking lot I realized hey there is mostly guys going in gay guys. My wife began chattering with the guys as they were going in. I by then was ready to roll being it was a Gay bar with guys when suddenly my wife bolts out of the car towards the bar saying I better come & get her We enter she goes straight to the gayist guy wearing chaps at that & strikes up a conversation. Me I am sweating bullets Anyway one side of the bar was full of very attractive lesbians which we headed. Bottom line it was probably one of the best club nights I ever experienced , music , dancing & no one hitting on my wife. Funny thing is some of the hot girls ? why we were there saying it was obvious we were straight.It was a good night

[FLICKOFLASH]

In my journey through life I have never seen a poor nor sloppy dressed or unhappy gay man They are always so cheery

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

My wife is a little on the wild side & when she drinks she is really wild. We have gone to strip clubs together & what not. One night I got the idea to go to a lesbian bar. Me thinking like guys think wife - hot chix -hot lesbian chix Well when we got to the parking lot I realized hey there is mostly guys going in gay guys. My wife began chattering with the guys as they were going in. I by then was ready to roll being it was a Gay bar with guys when suddenly my wife bolts out of the car towards the bar saying I better come & get her We enter she goes straight to the gayist guy wearing chaps at that & strikes up a conversation. Me I am sweating bullets Anyway one side of the bar was full of very attractive lesbians which we headed. Bottom line it was probably one of the best club nights I ever experienced , music , dancing & no one hitting on my wife. Funny thing is some of the hot girls ? why we were there saying it was obvious we were straight.It was a good night

that's really cool. none of the towns i've ever lived in except this one has had a gay bar. neither gay nor lez. but there's bar here that hosts saturday night gay nights. and pride events. i keep telling my partner we're going to go some night but we haven't yet

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

In my journey through life I have never seen a poor nor sloppy dressed or unhappy gay man They are always so cheery

when you come out and decide to be yourself and to live your life without apology, there are consequences, and there are rewards. one of the rewards is a level of satisfaction and fulfillment that i never in my life had experienced or expected. it's like writing that song that you think is for sure going to be a hit, or like that night that you and the guys jam so hard on stage that you blew everyone away including yourself with the grooves. but that feeling stays with you-- even through the rough times.

[FLICKOFLASH]

Originally Posted by Nicole Rose

that's really cool. none of the towns i've ever lived in except this one has had a gay bar. neither gay nor lez. but there's bar here that hosts saturday night gay nights. and pride events. i keep telling my partner we're going to go some night but we haven't yet

Gay bars have the best damn dance music

[brettk7]

Nicole, I think our "Ask A..." threads have been pretty interested to say the least.

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by brettk7

Nicole, I think our "Ask A..." threads have been pretty interested to say the least.

for sure

[FLICKOFLASH]

Does your girlfriend play guitar as well & into your music ?

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

Does your girlfriend play guitar as well & into your music ?

yes she plays guitar. she isnt' fabulous but she has a good sense of timing and melody. she has written like 10 of her own songs before she met me. she's written lyrics on two of my songs. she's also a poetess. she's written hundreds of poems. in a dry spell i might put some of them to music and make songs out of them.

[FLICKOFLASH]

when i was a kid at recess at school we use to play a game " Smear the queer" never knowing the meanings & the evil of it that we know now. I always wanted to write a song called Smear the Queer ( the game that we played)

[brettk7]

Originally Posted by Nicole Rose

for sure

I think we deserve VIP member status for them for sureee

[FLICKOFLASH]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

when i was a kid at recess at school we use to play a game " Smear the queer" never knowing the meanings & the evil of it that we know now. I always wanted to write a song called Smear the Queer ( the game that we played)

Maybe you can fullfil that song with your band for me as a anti gay hate , make what is strange not so strange -Smear the queer - get it

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

when i was a kid at recess at school we use to play a game " Smear the queer" never knowing the meanings & the evil of it that we know now. I always wanted to write a song called Smear the Queer ( the game that we played)

how would the lyrics go? what would you say in it?

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

Maybe you can fullfil that song with your band for me as a anti gay hate , make what is strange not so strange -Smear the queer - get it

i'm always looking for new song ideas but i think you should have a part in writing it since it's your idea.

[FLICKOFLASH]

Originally Posted by Nicole Rose

how would the lyrics go? what would you say in it?

The theme is how such a hate game is passed on from generation to generation on innocent kids not knowing what they are hating or doing.

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

The theme is how such a hate game is passed on from generation to generation on innocent kids not knowing what they are hating or doing.

i have an idea for a video for it already lol

[FLICKOFLASH]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

The theme is how such a hate game is passed on from generation to generation on innocent kids not knowing what they are hating or doing.

Smear the queer is a game children play in elementary school which the one with the ball gets chased & the other kids try to catch him to pound him & take the ball all in while calling him a queer. I idea is to ditch the ball if your about to be pounded & the attackers want to pocess the ball thus being queer & chased

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

Smear the queer is a game children play in elementary school which the one with the ball gets chased & the other kids try to catch him to pound him & take the ball all in while calling him a queer. I idea is to ditch the ball if your about to be pounded & the attackers want to pocess the ball thus being queer & chased

i get it.

[Nicole Rose]

the innocent passing on hate reminds me of an experience in childhood.

i participated in a circle. we surrounded this slow poor girl and hurled insults at her, intimidating her and causing her pain. i participated despite having been in that circle a few times myself. but it made me sick so i never participated again. i never saw that girl participate in a circle. she must have already known how it would feel. i just wonder how come the other kids didn't feel it.

the innocents pass on the traditions they've been taught. unless we teach them differently.

[FLICKOFLASH]

Thus the message for the song

[Nicole Rose]

Originally Posted by FLICKOFLASH

Thus the message for the song

now i have to figure out some lyrics lol. you want to collab on this flick?

[Eddie]

Oh damn, you've got to post this when it's done!