[Evil Mopars]

Originally Posted by your idol

Self worth, patience and a willingness to be alone. I dont need a second person to make me a whole person. If i am not with a woman i still function on full tilt. When i do have a woman i live the same way. If you live your life the same way no matter what the downtime, lonely time, single life or whatever you call it doesnt feel nearly as lonely.

I used to chase. Got my heart smashed and made to look a fool enough times. Decided i was going to live my life for me and me alone. Took almost a year off women. Did things i had always wanted to do for myself. Focused on cleaning up the things in life i was unhappy with. Its amazing what reclaiming your life for yourself vs offering it up like a sacraficial lamb to every girl you talk to does for your focus and confidence... No more being afraid to just say "no youre poisonous... No youre selfish... No youre vapid, it makes it so easy to weed through the bad people out there when youve clearly defined to yourself what youd like to add to your life.

After i took my life back and became a proud independant person not willing to fall for the shallow bullshit or hang around as a "good enough" guy and sacrafice my feelings and dignity for pu$$y my entire life changed. That feeling that comes with self reliance creeps in and lights up every corner of your life. Do not settle for less than what you expect of yourself . Your life as a whole will improve if you just focus on you for a bit, the right gal will find you when youre ready i swear. Youll know it when you meet her. She will just "fit" your life... Thats when youre ready for a proper relationship.

After my focus on me/self spring cleaning i ended up way happier with life in general and married to a perfect partner.

Kind of counter intuitive to marriage but i actually got this lifestyle going from listening to all my biker pals. They didnt do anything they didnt feel was good for them in their life. They didnt take shit from anyone. They didnt need 10000 friends to feel complete. Hell some of these guys would just disappear off the map for a month or so all alone and ride... They were happy with themselves and not willing to settle for anything less than what made them happy and werent going to ge ripped apart or slighted by the opposite... Girl or not, ill still ride like i always do and be ok.... Thats where you gotta get.

Great advice here^^^^^^^