Re: Dammit !! I lost the first round of chasing her!
All right, this is a serious answer.
If you are chasing a Chubby Chick, the question is just how chubby is she?
By today's standards, everyone that looks like they eat 3 meals a day is considered chubby!
If she is a "normal" sized girl, not anorexic looking, and attractive; then she is probably used to getting guys attention, and is just playing you guys against one another.
Cool your jets, and let her see you don't really care how it works out.
Women want what they can't have. Start paying attention to some of the other females around her. She will start to wonder why you are suddenly no longer interested in her.
If she is truly chubby, then you are dealing with all kinds of self esteem issues, on top of the usual estrogen induced quirks.
Maybe the other dude is not as attractive as you, so she is less intimidated by him. Maybe his attempts are less intense, and she is more comfortable with herself around him.
Bottom line is this: the goal is to get naked together. All women are insecure about their bodies. Chubby chicks are 1000 times worse. You need to make her comfortable with the situation.
You may also want to kick the other guys a$$ for c*ck blocking you!
My 2 Cents.........
"They say I'm lazy, but it takes all my time." - Joe Walsh
Last edited by SoWhat?; 03-23-2012 at 08:51 AM.